Published in Modern Swinging·PinnedMember-onlyHow To Find Your Swing StyleZone in on your swinger M.O. — After swinging for a certain amount of time, most couples will begin to zone in on what exactly they are seeking in others. The first few months to a year as swingers is always a learning curve. Like all other journeys in life, you have to get your bearings within…Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Published in Sexography·Nov 22Member-onlyWhy Some Women Just Want Their Nipples SuckedWhy the nipples are the gateway to some women’s sexual satisfaction — including my own — In the months leading up to my first time having penetrative sex with my high school boyfriend, we explored each other in every other way. I would give him oral and he would do the same to me. He would touch my body in all new places — some of…Nipples4 min readNipples4 min read
Published in Modern Swinging·Nov 13Swinging 101: Hotel TakeoversA hotel full of swingers — what it’s actually like — Recently, my husband and I returned from a Swingers hotel takeover. What is a hotel takeover? Basically, a group that hosts Lifestyle parties and events, books the entire hotel for a weekend and only other swingers are allowed to rent rooms. The event is usually totally closed to the public…Swingers7 min readSwingers7 min read
Published in Modern Swinging·Oct 17Member-onlySwinging 101: Oddities and Commonalities of the LifestyleThe weird coincidences and incidents of upside-down pineapple land — Talk to anyone in the Lifestyle and they will tell you that it is full of all kinds of people. Swinging is a unique thing that is unlike anything else out there. With that, couples are exposed to others from different areas, professions, and personalities. …Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Published in Sexography·Oct 17Member-onlyWhat It’s Like To Go To a Swinger’s Sex ClubOur first time in a new sex club — Recently, my husband and I went to a new Swinger’s Club in a city new to us. He had to travel for work, so with a little help from kickass grandparents, I was able to go with him. While Mr. …Sexclub7 min readSexclub7 min read
Published in Enjoyable Sex·Oct 13Member-onlyMy Husband Offers Me to Other Men for SexWheeling and dealing my hot pussy in exchange for the same — He rents me out. Yes, it is exactly as it sounds. He offers up my body to another man…and his sexy wife. None of this is against my wishes or nonconsensual in any way. In fact, it turns me on beyond all belief. The bargain is usually struck to include…Sex4 min readSex4 min read
Published in Sensual: An Erotic Life·Oct 2Member-onlyI Had Labiaplasty, and I Want to Shout It From the RooftopsWhy Losing a Part of Me Helped Me feel More Whole — Since the dawn of time, women have sought help reaching their own version of perfection. In the olden days, it was off-the-wall things like tinctures, casting spells, and rubbing animal dung on their faces. …Vagina5 min readVagina5 min read
Published in Modern Swinging·Sep 12Member-only5 Types of Swingers To AvoidPlease don’t knock pineapples with these people — The Lifestyle community is one of the most open-minded, accepting, and generous groups I’ve ever been a part of. When you break it all down, swinging is literally sharing your favorite person/love of your life with another person sexually. The fundamentals of it are based on trust, friendship, and openness. …Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Published in Sexography·Aug 29Member-onlyI Helped Out My Friend, Who Is a CuckqueanShe asked me to sleep with her husband, so I did — I have some eclectic friends. Participating in the kink community as a Hotwife for many years, exposed me to all sorts of people. On top of that, my husband and I also swing together. We have met some really great people. Some we have remained friends with. Yasmine is one…Cuckquean6 min readCuckquean6 min read
Published in Modern Swinging·Aug 6Member-onlySwinging 101: It’s Okay To Take a HiatusTaking a break is okay and coming back is your choice — One of the biggest lessons we’ve learned from our time in the Lifestyle, is that real life has a way of sneaking into any fun swinging plans you might have planned. One thing most couples can agree on, is that real life always comes before anything Lifestyle related! …Modern Swinging5 min readModern Swinging5 min read
